Confidence - freedom from doubt; belief in yourself and your abilities
Cocky - overly self-confident
Two words that everyone in the world are confused about. Its understandable when people point out someone saying "hes too confident, hes cocky as fuck, and hes arrogant," its probably because there not confident enough in themselves that they have to bring the other person to their level.
It bothers me to see people doubting themselves at all times, being negative, and walking around with there head down, etc. Why would you present yourself like that?
Confidence is something in this world people would die for, but at the same it is the easiest thing to gain. Look at all the pro athletes and celebrities. They always walk around with a smile or a serious face, head up, acting like they don't care. Confidence is needed to be successful, you will never meet someone that is successful that isn't confident about what they do.
Confidence is such a fantastic thing, and people feed off your energy, but at the same time confidence brings haters, and they'll use the word "Cocky". They're just probably saying that because they hate the fact you walk with intimidation, happiness, and always have your head up not giving a fuck about no one.
Now cocky to me isn't a bad thing, but at the same time it can be. If someone is bragging about themselves, that's when you use the word cocky, but it isn't bad to be over confident about yourself, because in detailed definition it means that you believe in yourself so much that no one can touch you.
Being confident and cocky comes being arrogant, which is the attitude of not caring about others. Look at Kobe Bryant, you never see him talking in a game, always has a serious face, and doesn't care about anything except winning. With these types of qualities, you gain a type of swag that no one can ever fuck with you.
In life if you are confident in whatever you want
money, sports, girls, etc, YOU WILL GET IT, because your only feeding off positive energy.
For example- telling yourself I can do it, everything will work out, She will be my girl, I will make it no matter what happens, always having a positive self-image in your mind.
Thinking and doing this will change who you are because you are staying positive instead of saying
No I cant do it, nothing will workout, she wont be my girl, I don't know if I'll make it to my dreams, she doesn't like me and having a bad self-image.
Thinking negative is doubting yourself!! Why would you doubt yourself? Because you don't believe in yourself and who you truly are.
This is one reason why I hate the word "hope". Why would you want to hope, why would say I hopefully make it, why don't you change it to
"I will make it!!"
Using the word is a sign of doubt to me, that's why I hate it when people around me use it.
Its either you can do it or you cant. Don't fool yourself by saying "hopefully" its not going to do you any good.
My life has changed since 8th grade, when I gained confidence naturally by just believing in myself. That energy lead to other things in life. Like basketball, school, money, girls, etc.
Life became so easy for me when I gained that much confidence. When you know deep down that you can do anything, your unstoppable. Plus people love to feed off your energy, because when they see you happy at all times, they just wonder how your so hyper, and happy.
I have clearly seen peoples lives change because of "confidence".
It changed my best friends life. He used to be sad, depressed, and never believed in himself, IN NOTHING.
Now, since he's gained confidence, I see a different person, I see someone who loves life, is always smiling, laughing, and not worried about anything because he knows he can do it no matter what.
It clearly showed me that confidence is the key to life.
I love my life no matter what, because I believe in myself at all times with anything coming from my future to girls. Life's easy and the best!!
You think girls want a non-confident dude?
They want someone who is sure of themselves at all times,
walks with his head up smiling, and is just simply enjoying himself.
And with confidence comes swag! Something that all women love ;)
Share the energy, it makes the world a better place when everyone is happy! When you see someone you know doubting themselves, correct them!! And explain to them the right way or even show them this blog, it will change there perspective of life. And you will be the one to thank once their lives change in a positive way.
I made this blog today because I just simply love life and I want to share my energy and change peoples lives, and show them the right way or path in enjoying their life. You only live once so you might as well live it the best way possible, right?
Well the best way to live it, is to be confident!!
"Haters only hate the things that they can’t get and the people they can’t be."
“If my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe it, I know I can achieve it.”
“Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.”
-Farzan Johnathan Azinkhan
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"Look at Kobe Bryant, you never see him talking in a game" - Well you never see it, but he actually does. Check out the link below, he was voted the second biggest trash talker in the NBA by the players
ReplyDeletehttp://thelakersnation.com/blog/2010/01/13/kobe-ranked-2-trash-talker-in-league-kg-1/
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hold on i meant to say before a game hes silent as hell, but when hes in the game hes cocky and ignorant and talks alot of shit because he can
ReplyDeletehes kobe he busts niggas ass on a daily basis